Charles Taylor’s “Our Secular Age” – A Short Summary

Modern Philosophy Has Struggled

The history of modern Western intellectual life is not very comforting. We end up with Nietzsche’s superman which led to Nazism. We have Marx’s views which lead to totalitarian communist states. We have Freud’s view of mental repression and the impossibility of civilization. We have the next “scientific” view of psychology with Pavlov’s “stimulus and response”. We have Darwin’s principle of evolution which led to “social Darwinism” and its winner apologetics and eugenics. We have Darwin’s principle of evolution which led to scientific materialism, the rejection of any possible spiritual or non-material dimension to life. We have truly modern physics, chemistry, biology, mathematics and philosophy of science which undermine any possibility of a Newtonian certainty about science or nature, despite Einstein’s pursuit of a grand unifying theory and belief that “God doesn’t play dice with the universe”. We have existentialism which embraces the skeptics’ worst intuitions. We have professional philosophy which rejects metaphysics (fundamental nature, big picture approach) and adopts a purely analytical approach which reduces questions to precise language and logic. We have postmodernist philosophers who reject any structure other than the certainty that powerful forces will abuse their powers.

Modern History: Progress and Disintegration

Charles Taylor’s 2007 book “Our Secular Age” attempts to place all of this in perspective.

A “Secular Age” is one in which most individuals “know” that there may or may not be God, purpose, meaning or transcendence in life. A person’s life may be meaningless. The “next best” approach may only be to optimize the individual’s potential. There is “no exit”.

Doubt, skepticism and uncertainty are very powerful forces. Taylor argues that we all live based on implicit paradigms, beliefs, worldviews, assumptions, experiences, intuitions, etc. We are intuitive, social, historical beings. We absorb the beliefs of our culture. We don’t rationally evaluate and choose. About 4 million people are born in the US each year. 9,000 people earn philosophy degrees while 27,000 earn religion degrees annually. 1% of our citizens seriously pursue these questions.

In 1500, Western society was organic, with economics, politics, society and religion integrated into a well understood and accepted whole. Aristotle was “the philosopher”. St. Thomas Aquinas and the scholastics were applying logic to religious topics. History and tradition mattered. Morality and ethics were clearly defined and accepted. The spiritual dimension of nature and life was obvious. The personal Christian God was actively at work in the world. Priests and religious orders pursued perfection. Ordinary people supported the clergy and lived adequate Christian lives.

Modernity changed the Christian church. Luther elevated the role of the individual’s relationship with God, unmediated by clergy, in their local language. Each Church had to manage local politics to survive. Deism evolved as a scientific/rational form of religion.

The roles of economics, politics, society and religion were separated from each other. Social institutions evolved and learned to stand alone. Education, commerce and travel became more important.

Science became a driving force in understanding and controlling nature. It became commercially and politically important.

Individualistic philosophies developed. The “social contract” theory of politics was adopted and implemented.

Secular institutions were defined and provided services that replaced the role of the Church.

Today

We live in a world of skepticism, fear/insecurity, political polarization, subjectivity, tolerance, productivity, consumption, identity, searching, and striving.

The dominant approach of the professional class is deemed “the therapeutic society”. The individual reigns supreme. The individual is created to pursue his destiny, capabilities, potential or goal. The goal of the individual is to find/define and pursue this potential. Creativity, self-expression and authenticity are highly valued.

Taylor says that individuals seeking to pursue their capabilities still need feedback from their communities to validate their choices and results. They attempt to be radically independent but cannot do so.

There is a “tipping point” phenomenon at work. As science/technology became more insightful/effective, it became the default explanation for everything. In 1802 the mathematician Laplace replied to Napoleon’s question about the role of God in his latest book, “I have no need for that hypothesis”. The myth of the brave/heroic scientist/thinker overcoming social conventions and religious authorities was created and effectively employed. The false opposition of “science versus religion” was promoted.

The reduction in church attendance, membership and participation that occurred in Western countries along with education, urbanization and economic growth was deemed the “secularization hypothesis”: individuals automatically lost religion as civilization developed.

Our society promotes personal freedom, liberty and individual choice as the highest values. Our politicians and leaders encourage individualism. Economic production, success and consumption are elevated. The “free market” system becomes the model for social choices. Personal choices without limits are promoted. Government or social restrictions on individual choices are considered intrusions into sacred personal spaces.

Analysis and Hope

Taylor outlines the history of how our default worldview has changed. There has been continued growth and success of “instrumental logic” in science/technology and business/economics. The power of efficient causes alone in shaping and improving material well-being and possibilities is obvious. Individualism has grown to become a new God, with identity becoming all important. The possibility of “science” and “logic” explaining more and more and more has grown.

Taylor argues that we have assumed away the spiritual dimension of life. The progress of science has no bearing on important religious or philosophical questions. What is the meaning of life? Where did the world come from? Does the world have a purpose? How do scientific laws really work? How do I live a good life? How do I live in community? What is a good form of government? Why am I conscious? Why can I comprehend how the world works? What is beauty? What is religious feeling? Where does love come from?

Taylor argues that the scientific revolution lured us into believing that there are answers like Newton’s law of gravity and Euclid’s proofs of geometry that apply to all questions. We “rationalized” Christianity to make it “respectable”, creating Deism, but more importantly assuming that scientific rationality and logical proof is the only valid measure of success. Christian apologists sought to “prove” God and religious teachings. Religious leaders sought to modernize religion, stripping it of “irrational” content, deconstructing its content, evaluating it through literary and historical analysis, proving its merit through its application to social needs. Taylor says that this was a centuries long diversion.

Taylor highlights the failure of science and philosophy to be “fully rationalized”. Modern science cannot be reduced to a simplistic logical system beginning with a few assumptions and logically developing all results. Science is rational but not logically bullet-proof. It includes many features that are not “logical”. Science at very small and very large scales is strange and mysterious. Scientific disciplines use different methods and are sometimes incompatible. Emergent systems can be described but not in classic logical terms. Philosophy is used to analyze and deconstruct but it has failed to construct better answers.

Taylor and his popularizer, James K.A. Smith, emphasize that the spiritual dimension continues to “intrude” into everyday life for believers, skeptics, agnostics and atheists. Despite the progress of science, the secularization of society and the powerful influence of a “secular age” background worldview, spiritual experiences, ideas, thoughts, insights, longings, perceptions and behaviors don’t “go away”. They seem to be an intrinsic part of human life.

Like many modern Christian apologists, Taylor recommends that we reject the scientific method, logical proof, and Occam’s razor reductionist bias as the measure of religious/philosophical ideas, systems, processes, experiences and communities. He proposes that we consider “all available evidence”. What theory best matches the evidence? No theory is objectively true or fully comprehensive. Theories provide insights and answers to both common and difficult religious/philosophical questions. They are imperfect. Philosophical criticism indicates that there are trade-offs and shortcomings in all such systems. Taylor notes that it is only with the success of the scientific revolution that we have the audacity to expect to understand and explain everything about the universe including our religious/philosophical questions.

For many, Taylor’s conclusions seem like lukewarm apologetics. There is no certainty. We can’t trust science. We experience religion, so it must exist.

Taylor and his supporters argue that he is incorporating the best of human history and thought into his analysis and framework. We mistakenly believed that we could find reductionist answers to our questions. After 500 years of truly amazing scientific and economic progress we now know that this is impossible or very unlikely. We still have our religious/philosophical questions and experiences. They won’t go away. As with C.S. Lewis, he defines these explanations as myths or stories using human tools to provide insights into systems beyond our direct comprehension. The difference is that Christianity is a “true myth”.

We can choose to pursue a rational, reductionist, materialistic, non-spiritual solution. We can embrace a fully defined, literalist religious faith. Or, we can engage with a mysterious Christianity that provides essential answers that seem imperfect according to our modern conceptions of logic and rationality.

Exodus 3:14 New International Version

God said to Moses, “I am who I am. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: ‘I am has sent me to you.’”

We are not promised a “full explanation”.

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Civility “in a Box” (Summarized)

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Civility is:

  1. A set of behaviors that recognize differences and build mutual respect.
  2. A tool to deliver productive results through Civil discourse.
  3. Comprised of self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship management, communications, growth and problem-solving skills and behaviors.
  4. A habit.
  5. A choice (intentional).
  6. Based on the universal values of human dignity, respect, acceptance, responsibility, constructiveness, intentionality and public-spiritedness.
  7. A moral system but not a replacement for religious, philosophical or political systems.
  8. Viral; a virtuous/vicious cycle.
  9. Nonpartisan.
  10. Ecumenical.
  11. Teachable.
  12. A blend of thinking, feeling and doing.
  13. A social norm.
  14. Consistent with human nature.
  15. Actionable.
  16. An aspirational ideal, never fully achieved.
  17. A builder of trust, community, common good and institutions.
  18. A self-maintaining social system.
  19. Supported by world religions and secular humanism.
  20. Informed by modern social science.
  21. Practiced in personal, work, play, church, sports, media, union, culture, service, government and political environments.
  22. Required for democracy.
  23. Inspired by self-interest, situations, personality, identity, civic duty, patriotic duty, cultural duty, religious duty and philosophical duty.
  24. NOT too simple, complex, moderate, extreme, soft, hard, liberal or conservative.
  25. A solution to our challenges of political polarization, selfish media, radical individualism, limits of human nature, skepticism, our secular age, imperfect myths and insecurity.

Basis for the Civility Values

Basis for Selecting the 7 Civility Values

Context

Civility is based upon 7 values: human dignity, respect, acceptance, responsibility, constructiveness, intentionality and public-spiritedness.  These values have been identified as the foundation of Civility because they work together with the 7 Civility behaviors to deliver results while recognizing differences and building mutual respect through civil discourse.

Deliver Results

  1. The values strongly drive the 7 sets of behaviors.
  2. The values and behaviors produce the desired results.
  3. Society is more productive.
  4. Civility behaviors become habits, valuable assets.
  5. People are engaged, their capabilities employed.
  6. Creative and cooperative solutions are generated.

Build Relations

  • Build communications skills.
  • Provides a safe environment which encourages interactions.
  • Creates a positive climate and expectations.
  •  Promotes positive expectations and attitudes.
  • Reduces social tensions and anxiety.
  • Promotes trust in people, groups and institutions.
  • Builds a sense of teamwork, community and common purpose.

Adequate

  • Addresses real differences of experiences, interests, power and views.

Sustainable

  1. Encourages consideration of long-term consequences.
  2. Emphasizes the nature of repeated conversations and negotiations.
  3. Inserts the common good as a meaningful objective and factor to consider.
  4. Invests in the process.
  5. Supports the needs of all participants.

Reduce Costs

  • Minimizes lost participation, ideas, solutions, compromises.
  • Reduces overall communications, legal and transaction costs.
  • Discourages destructive discourse, threats and behaviors.
  • Avoid and resolve conflicts.

Broadly Supported

  • Historically used by many cultures and traditions.
  • Consistent with lists of common moral values.
  • Commonly described by popular and academic writers.
  • Generally supported by the average person.
  • Nonpartisan.
  • Ecumenical, not promoting one religion or denomination.

Broadly Applied

  • Values and behaviors in family, neighborhood, work, play, church and civic situations.

Support Democracy

  • Provide moral/community basis for political participation, engagement, voting, funding, service, and legal compliance.

Actionable

  • Mutually consistent, supportive, connected values and behaviors.
  • Limited set of values with clear definitions and complementary taboos.
  • Consistent with human nature, even if requiring education and moral effort.
  • Values and behaviors can be taught, practiced and improved.
  • Consistent with the findings of modern social sciences.

Powerful

  • Values are deeply felt, motivating their adoption, cultivation and application.
  • Consistent with the virtuous cycle of reinforcement through social interactions.
  • Intuitive definition and connection with practical and moral life.
  • Connected with the religious and philosophical vertical dimension of life.
  • Capable of being supported as a social norm.

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Vertical Dimension of Life Supports Civility

The Vertical Dimension of Experience Supports the Civility Values

All people experience the universe as something much larger, more complex, abstract and mysterious than their direct, personal lives.  They try to make sense of the whole and determine their place and meaning.  They sense that there are things beyond the materialistic human scale experience.  They feel separation and long for a stronger connection with the whole.  They experience parts of the larger universe which they cannot fully capture.  Love, beauty, change, consciousness, art, music, science, intuitions, mysteries, miracles, myths, stories, awe, infinity, eternity, transcendence, dimensions, time, responsibility, sacred, pure, form, structure, number and mathematics all point to something “more”.

Some identify and experience God, gods, even a personal God.  Others see structure, laws, nature, spirits or forces.

The key is the separation of the individual from the universe and the experienced relationship.  The individual is not alone.  He is connected to the source.  He has neighbors who seem to be in the same situation.  He experiences vertical and horizontal relationships. 

The source has provided life to all men.  They are in the same position.  They deserve respect.

Men understand something of the universe.  They connect with the source.  They appreciate the structure.  They are self-aware.  They exist.  Human dignity makes sense.

Men are not the center of the universe.  There are many creatures.  There are many other men.  Variety is everywhere.  Men and women differ.  Children and relatives differ.  Men experience growth, development and change.  They expect change and diversity.

Men experience freedom of choice.  They appreciate and defend this natural liberty.  They believe they have “free will”.  They seem to have a consistent “self” to speak with.  They have logical capabilities.  They can plan and execute.

Men experience logical yes and no.  They see opposites.  They sense “right and wrong”. They see and punish unfairness.  They are socialized by experience, parents and neighbors.  They live in a moral universe.  Accountability arises from this environment.

Men live in communities.  They are subject to the seasons, nature, disease, invaders and the weather.  Their lives and fates are intertwined.  They produce, learn, play and worship together.  They are interdependent.  They benefit from trade.  Communities transmit culture, history and myths.  The public good is self-evident in most human communities.

Man exists.  He is self-aware.  He experiences pleasure and pain.  Nature provides resources.  He experiences joy and sorrow.  He manages many fears and threats.  Yet, he sings and celebrates.  He benefits from a positive world view.

In each case, men have natural experiences, vertically connected with nature, the universe, the source of being.  This connection provides meaning, certainty, hope and safety.  These values are natural values, that can be supported without making specific religious, scientific or philosophical claims.

How the Vertical Dimension Supports Civility:  Google AI – April 8, 2026

The vertical dimension of life—often defined as one’s connection to a higher power, transcendent values, or a “higher self”—is deeply connected to civility, as it serves as an internal, ethical anchor that encourages treating others with respect, dignity, and care. While horizontal actions deal with navigating daily, material life, the vertical dimension focuses on inner transformation and accountability to a standard higher than oneself, which is often crucial for fostering public-mindedness and genuine connection with others.

• Foundation for Universal Respect: A vertical orientation provides a basis for recognizing that all individuals possess innate worth and dignity, independent of their social standing or whether one “likes” them. This “internal disposition of the heart” encourages respect for the “other,” ensuring individuals treat people as moral equals.

• Transcending Self-Interest: The vertical dimension cultivates a sense of awe and gratitude (an awe-based approach to the Divine or the cosmos) which encourages us to look beyond our own immediate interests and ego. This shift in consciousness moves people from a “me” focus to an “eco” or “us” focus, which is essential for community building and civility.

• Ethical Accountability: It brings a deeper awareness of the impact of one’s actions on others and fosters responsibility, self-awareness, and self-restraint. This often manifests as a “vertical” obligation to follow moral laws that transcend personal desires, leading to more respectful interaction.

• Disagreement Resolution: Authentic civility, rooted in this dimension, allows individuals to respectfully handle disagreements and navigate differences in public conversation rather than simply avoiding conflict.

Vertical vs. Horizontal Dimensions of Life

• Horizontal Dimension: Refers to the visible, life-in-time, material aspects of existence, where one tries to improve circumstances or “fix” things. It can sometimes lead to superficial politeness or a “socially controlled” adherence to norms rather than genuine care.

• Vertical Dimension: Focuses on the “Being” or the internal, non-physical plane of life, which brings peace and allows for better navigating of the horizontal plane.

In summary, the vertical dimension acts as the “inner soil” that nourishes civic behavior (public-mindedness), ensuring that interactions with others are grounded in deeper, shared principles of respect rather than just superficial politeness.  

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Civility: I Will Survive

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Civility faces many challenges to survive and thrive. It possesses many advantages.

Conceptually

They say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one.
The umbrella terms liberal and conservative are inadequate to political dimensions and individuals.
Despite DEI politics, most Americans support diversity, equal opportunity and acceptance.
Thought leaders realize there is no alternative to Civility for a modern society to function.
We define “certainty” for science and religion. We have post-Newton insights in the last 100 years.
We understand “victim” language. We can help ourselves and our friends to reject this burden.

Logically

Civility encourages us to accurately diagnose the current situation.
Despite political extremism, instrumental logic and facts rule the scientific and business worlds.
Civility is designed to be nonpartisan, allowing political parties to embrace this approach to effectiveness.
The 7 Civility values are equally attractive to liberals and conservatives.
Civility is able to promote public-spiritedness without leaning left.

Morally

The Civility behaviors are mostly consistent with human nature. The rest can be taught.
In a time of advanced technologies and artificial intelligence, focusing first on human dignity is wise.
While Civility focuses on behaviors and a few values, it can be driven by more emotional values.
We better understand the benefits and limits of tolerance and its role as a social value.
Most people see the costs of extreme individualism to themselves, family, neighbors and coworkers.
By highlighting the habit of skepticism, we can greatly reduce its poisonous impact.

Progressively

The track record of modern society solving problems is very strong.
Our world has an increasing experience base of finding both/and descriptions and solutions.
We do have a long track record of reducing our perceptions of “the other” as a threat.
We have more experience outsourcing government functions to reduce the sense of intrusion.
The change is based on incremental improvements rather than heroic efforts and projects.
Modern communications capabilities can effectively promote moderate, complex, less emotional positions.
As Robert Putnam documents in The Upswing, we have revised our social institutions before.

Powerfully

Civility is supported by a super majority of independents, Republicans and Democrats.
Corporations need Civility to operate complex organizations. They will recruit, train and reward Civility.
Civility embraces a wide diversity or political and religious beliefs.
Civility is supported by many churches, businesses, professions, universities and governments.
Leaders of Europe’s more secular democracies strongly embrace Civility.
There is no fundamental opposition to Civility by China’s leaders.
Civility is strongly supported by the major religions.
The 7 Civility values are supported by all major religions and philosophies.
Unquestioned religion or scientism are dead. Better insights and communication are possible.
The Catholic church can strongly support Civility.
Protestant churches can support Civility without overemphasizing “social justice”.

Politically

Societies have always had political differences. Our differences are no greater than in history.
In the American 2-party system, the center normally has extra political weight.
Political parties, groupings, ideologies and polarization naturally change through time.
We have 50 years of post-60’s social policy debates. We know that we will always disagree on some things.
The diversity of states allows the benefits of federalism to accrue with better policies emerging.
The reliance of the classical liberal political model on shared values is better recognized.
The unintended consequences of politically extreme policies become obvious in time.

The impossibility of extreme political parties/factions delivering on their promises becomes apparent.
Ironically, liberals have become “cultural conservatives”, promoting a 250-year-old approach.
Liberals increasingly see the value of allowing states to determine social and economic policies.
Some liberals see that 100% enforcement of social policies drives strong opposition for little benefit.
Broadly defined insecurity has become a political priority that will generate nonpartisan solutions.

Educationally


Modern cognitive science, counselling and organizational behavior are highly effective.
By defining Civility as a set of behaviors, we make it teachable, actionable and leverageable.

The Civility lessons are straightforward, allowing many to lead workshops.
Solid Civility lesson plans can be developed in many places and used everywhere.
We can fine-tune and package hundreds of Civility training exercises to serve everyone.
Organizations and individuals can rely upon counselling, groups and training.
We can greatly improve our school curriculums to teach Civility as a solution to real differences.
Civility is practiced and improved in all arenas of life. Improvements are leveraged.

Virally

In a highly specialized world, there are more opportunities to apply Civility “win-win” principles.
Civility is not an “all or nothing” set of behaviors. Incremental progress is normal.
The more challenging Civility behaviors can be practiced in safer, local environments.
Local expectations of Civility allow all individuals to apply and grow these behaviors.
Civility can be practiced in any environment without permission from anyone.
Civility skills, values, beliefs can be developed and applied without any approvals.
The virtuous cycle of Civility applies at levels. Good behavior or feedback drives more good behavior.
The practice of Civility generates “positive externalities” for others. The state should support it.
The practice of Civility provides a role model for others to emulate.
Social norms are very powerful. Most people learn them implicitly.
Civility behaviors can become habits which then apply without thought or effort.

Beneficially

Every person can serve as a Civility ambassador, champion or “civiliteer”.
High-level Civility skills are personally and professionally highly valuable.
The Civility emphasis on self-awareness and values clarification can improve quality of life.
Humans have much in common and can learn this.
Americans have much in common.
We understand “human nature” deeply, so can adjust to leverage strengths and patch weaknesses.
Americans are proud of their political system and will invest in Civility to preserve it.
Civility’s focus on human dignity supports the modern high importance of personal identity.
As individuals seek validation of their identities, Civility can help to facilitate good conversations.
Our greatly improved understanding of behavioral economics provides new policy opportunities.

Summary

The modern approach to improving and installing Civility as a major social norm is audacious, yet it has great support.

Culture Shock of the Sixties

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The 1960s are considered a massive cultural shock because they marked a rapid, comprehensive rejection of traditional 1950s social norms, fueled by a booming youth population, the Vietnam War, and mass media. It shattered established authority in politics, race relations, gender roles, and lifestyle, shifting Western society toward personal liberation. Google AI – April 6, 2026

Key Factors Behind the 1960s Cultural Shift:

  • Counterculture and Lifestyle: A youth-driven movement rejected conventional morality, embracing “free love,” casual sex, drug use, communal living, and distinct fashion changes like the miniskirt and long hair.
  • Civil Rights and Equality: The struggle for racial equality transformed society, punctuated by the Civil Rights Act of 1964
    and Voting Rights Act of 1965, alongside the rise of second-wave feminism.
  • The Vietnam War and Anti-War Protests: The war, amplified by television, created a “credibility gap” between government claims and reality, sparking intense youth protest and mistrust of authority.
  • Technological and Social Changes: The proliferation of television created a unified media experience, while the advent of “the Pill” significantly altered sexual norms and gender dynamics.
  • Musical and Artistic Explosion: Music, particularly rock and folk, became a vessel for social critique and the unification of a new generation (e.g., Woodstock).
  • A “Bridge” Decade: The 1960s acted as a transition from the conservative, black-and-white media era to the more permissive, colorful “modern” world, with technological advancements like early satellite communication and computers.

This period is unique because it forced a shift from traditional institutional authority (church, family, state) to personal authenticity, empathy, and moral sensitivity.

[1] https://www.nypl.org/blog/2011/11/15/sixties-era-pop-cultural-revolution-america

[2] https://www.britannica.com/topic/1960s-counterculture

[3] https://frompovertytoprogress.substack.com/p/conscience-without-god-the-cultural

[4] https://www.rbf.org/about/our-history/timeline/1960s-tradition-and-tumult

[5] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xw9kTR4ribo

[6] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Counterculture_of_the_1960s

[7] https://issuesinperspective.com/2018/06/how-the-1960s-transformed-american-civilization/

[8] https://www.reddit.com/r/decadeology/comments/1ntagh6/the_1960s_is_the_decade_that_best_represents_the/

[9] https://www.quora.com/Why-did-American-society-experience-so-much-turmoil-in-the-1960s

[10] https://www.gilderlehrman.org/history-resources/essays/sixties

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The 8 Older Men and Civility

The blind men and the elephant: Is perception reality?

In recent times, eight older men lived in an Indiana community. Each was successfully retired and quite confident. Their neighbors loved the older men and encouraged their breakfast group meetings. Since the older men were no longer actively engaged at work, they had to imagine how things really operated. They listened carefully to stories about the active world of business, government, politics, health care, science, and leadership told to them by others.

The men were curious about many of the stories they heard, but they were most curious about Civility as a super solution to social challenges. They were told that Civility could fix politics, solve tough problems, promote personal growth, reinsert facts and logic into debate, revive trust, social relationships and institutions, and restore the balance between individuals and community. 

They remembered Indiana as a very special place with great leaders. They recognized Birch and Evan Bayh, VP’s Quayle and Pence, representatives Lee Hamilton and Julia Carson, Indianapolis mayors Hudnut, Goldsmith, Petersen, Ballard and Hogsett, mayor and senator Lugar, but especially Governor Mitch Daniels.  They knew that Daniels had been effective for Indiana, America and Purdue.  Did Daniels believe in this Civility miracle solution?

The older men argued day and night about Civility. “Civility must be too simple,” claimed the first man. He had heard stories that it ignores real differences and big solutions.

“No, you must be wrong,” argued the second man. “Civility is complicated, combining values and habits in search of perfection.  That is why people struggle to follow it.”

“You’re wrong! Civility seeks compromise, the middle ground and the golden mean.  It combines the best that participants can offer,” said the third man.

“Please,” said the fourth man. “You are all mistaken. Civility grandly guarantees that it can solve all problems and conflicts! You know how people exaggerate.”

“How can you be so naïve,” exclaimed the fifth man.  “Civility simply rationalizes weak, overly sensitive behaviors that avoid conflict and deny human nature.”

“Civility ignores passion and the emotions,” cried the sixth man.  “It eliminates feelings, values, and intuitions by emphasizing cold rationality alone.”

“I am sure that Civility is a leftist plot,” said the seventh man. “That would explain why it emphasizes the importance and legitimacy of government.”

“On the contrary,” declared the eighth man. “Civility is a Republican scheme to return to the 1950’s with its mindless emphasis on a single culture, morality, character and values.”

Finally, the neighbors grew tired of all the arguments, and arranged for the curious men to visit the home office of Mr. Daniels to learn the truth about Civility.

When the men reached the home a half-hour ahead of schedule, they were greeted by an old friend who managed the governor’s visitors. Their friend led them to a waiting room where they watched a 10-minute video on Civility. The retired men quickly began to argue.

The first man stood up and exclaimed. “Civility is just common sense, nothing special.”

The second man misquoted the video. “Civility claims that all people can get along and all problems can be solved,” he announced.

The third man disagreed. “I was right,” he decided. “Civility is a tool of the powerful to maintain the status quo.”

The fourth man criticized Civility’s idealism. “What we have here,” he said, “is a sort of cult, invoking magical practices to reach utopian ends.”

The fifth man responded, “Civility is hopelessly weak because it asserts that strong emotions, interpersonal relations, sensitivity and hospitality can mend all fences.”

The sixth man stated, “Civility is very powerful.  It allows groups and individuals to acquire and use power for their own ends, while dismissing the needs and desires of others.”

The seventh man considered the actors in the presentation. “Civility elevates individuals and personal growth above church and community, so it must favor Democrats,” he said.

The eighth man was shocked. “Why, Civility is nothing more than a way for the powerful to reassert social control through norms, taboos and shunning,” he scoffed.

The governor’s aide led his friends to the kitchen. “Sit here and rest,” he said. “I will bring you something to drink.”

While they waited, the eight men talked about Civility.

“Civility is just politeness, rules and etiquette.  It is a surface level approach,” said the first man. “Surely we can finally agree on that.”

“Just politeness? Civility aims to transform men, institutions and society” answered the second man.

“Transformation?  Civility focuses just on process, promotes elite values and prevents real arguments and solutions” insisted the third man.

“It’s impossible for everyone to develop such powerful skills that effectively bridge real human differences,” said the fourth man.

“Civility merely assumes that better skills, processes and values can manage differences, conflicts and human nature through the forces of goodwill,” noted the fifth man.

“Civility provides a socially approved way for individuals to emphasize form over substance.  They can perform in a civil manner without really addressing the needs of others,” cautioned the sixth man.

“Socialist subjectivity and radical tolerance. There’s no doubt,” said the seventh man.

“Don’t you see?” pleaded the eighth man. “Civility is intended to keep us occupied and distracted by small issues and away from the larger issues of systematic injustice.  Someone is using Civility to trick us.”

Their argument continued and their shouts grew louder and louder.

“Too simple!” “Too complex!” “Too moderate!” “Too extreme!” “Too soft!” “Too hard!” “Too liberal!” “Too conservative!”

“Stop shouting!” called a very angry voice.

It was Purdue President emeritus Daniels, disturbed by the noisy argument.

“How can each of you be so certain you are right?” asked the former governor.

The eight men considered the question. And then, knowing the budget director to be a very wise man, they decided to say nothing at all.

“Civility combines values, skills and behaviors to solve problems and build relations,” said Mr. Daniels. “Each of you exaggerates the importance of only one part. Perhaps if you put the parts together, you will see the truth. Now, let me finish my morning in peace.”

When their friend returned with drinks, the eight men rested quietly, thinking about their leader’s advice.

“He is right,” said the first man. “To learn the truth, we must put all the parts together. Let’s discuss this on the journey home.”

The first man found his seat on the senior bus. The second man found his seat, and so on until all eight men were ready to travel together.

References (and apologies …)

Peace Corps – The Blind Men and the Elephant

Civility is Nonpartisan – Good News

Civility is Not Simple or Easy – Good News

Opposition to Civility is Unconvincing – Good News

Opposition to Civility is Unconvincing (2) – Good News

Civility is for Everyone! – Good News

Civility: Can’t We All Just Get Along? – Good News

Civility Resources (2): Causes of the Decline in Civility

Overview

The decline in Civility is intertwined with other changes in society. We’ll share the 6 root causes. Fortunately, the recovery of Civility can help to address each of the 6 root causes of decline. Radical individualism, human nature, skepticism, our secular age, imperfect myths and insecurity.

Causes of Decline

6 Root Causes of Our Situation – Good News

There has been a groundswell of interest in addressing the loss of Civility in modern society. Members of both parties, young and old, rural, urban and suburban have begun to engage on this important topic. Civility is treating others with respect, especially when you disagree. It is a mental attitude, a habit, a character trait, a set of actions. Civility is a key to effective life in community, especially for participating in a democratic government.

Yet, I will argue that the loss of Civility is a symptom of much larger challenges rather than a root cause. 

Civility Crisis or Civilization Crisis? – Good News

Causes of the Decline in Civility: Index – Good News

The Decadent Society: Too Dark – Good News

The media and politics are important factors in the breakdown of society and decline of Civility.

Causes of the Decline in Civility #2 – Good News

Radical Individualism and Loss of Community

What’s The Root Cause of Our Problems?: Radical Individualism – Good News

Only the Individual? – Good News

Our American Community – Good News

Critical Role for Community in American History – Good News

Our Kids: The American Dream in Crisis (2015) – Good News

Liberal Concerns; Community Solutions – Good News

Embracing Community: Overcoming Roadblocks on the Left – Good News

5 Causes of Social Decline

What’s the Root Cause of Our Problems?: Human Nature – Good News

What’s The Root Cause of Our Problems?: Skepticism – Good News

Peggy Lee: Is That All There Is? – Good News

What’s the Root Cause of Our Problems?: Our Secular Age – Good News

How (NOT) to be Secular: Reading Charles Taylor – Good News

The Ethics of Authenticity / The Malaise of Modernity (1991) – Charles Taylor – Good News

The World is Not Atomistic, Deterministic, Materialistic – Good News

What’s The Root Cause of Our Problems?: Imperfect Myths – Good News

What’s the Root Cause of Our Problems?: Insecurity – Good News

Historical Events; Fear and Insecurity – Good News

Civility Resources (1): Context of Good News

Optimism – Global Wellness Institute

Overview

Our current challenging social and political situation is driven by the root causes of individualism, skepticism secularism, inadequate myths, human nature and insecurity. In a word: negativity. Civility embraces constructiveness, intentionality and public-spiritedness as clearly “positive” values. It is also based upon the “positive” values of human dignity, respect and acceptance. Is it reasonable to be so positive in a time of negativity driven by politicians, the media and our fellow citizens? The answer is “yes”. We have chosen to emphasize our challenges rather than our accomplishments. Those who pursue Civility need to be aware of the reality of modern progress, conditions in all areas of life and realistic opportunities for change.

Overall Good News

Improvements in all areas of life since the 1976 bicentennial are amazing!

We’re MUCH Better Off in 2026 – Good News

100 improvements in all areas.

Index of 100 Good News Posts – Good News

A safer world.

Modern History: International – Good News

Unimaginable communications and computer tools.

Modern History: Communications and Computers – Good News

Social progress and social choices.

Modern History: Society and Religion – Good News

32 Fiction Works Set in the 1950’s – Good News

Disruption:

Culture Shock of the Sixties – Good News

Philosophy and politics. We have succeeded many times.

Modern History: Philosophy and Politics – Good News

WW II, the Fifties and early Sixties: 24 Great Biographies – Good News

American Presidents – 36 Great Biographies – Good News

Science and Technology

Modern History: Communications and Computers – Good News

Human Progress: Accumulate and Innovate – Good News

Modern History: Math (and Physics) – Good News

Modern History: Biology and Life – Good News

Modern History: Technology – Good News

Good News: 100 Recent Technical Innovations for You! – Good News

Business and Economics

Modern History: Business & Economics – Good News

80 Years of Global Economic Success – Good News

The US Economy Leads the World – Good News

The US Economy is Already Great: No Tariffs Required – Good News

Good News: The Business Cycle is Done – Good News

Management Effectiveness Has More Than Doubled in the Last 50 Years!!!! – Good News

Mostly Good News Since the 2008 Great Recession – Good News

Civility Resources (4): Values

Overview

Civility is a social norm and a set of behaviors based upon a set of shared values. We address public morality, the 7 Civility values and their broad support from different belief systems.

Morality

Thought leaders increasingly embrace the need for some kind of commonly held public morality to replace the historical background of Christianity and Western civilization.

Respect, responsibility, honesty, compassion and fairness comprise one set of values to consider.

Common Moral Values – Good News

Rabbi Sacks provides historical context of the ideas that have led to an “I” focused culture, outlines the symptoms of a weakened “We” culture, and provides some insights as to what can be done. He combines a politically and economically moderate view with a conservative social perspective.

“We will have to rebuild families and communities and voluntary organizations. We will come to depend more on networks of kinship and friendship. And we will rapidly discover that their very existence depends on what we give as well as what we take, on our willingness to shoulder duties, responsibilities, and commitments as well as claiming freedoms and rights.”

Morality (2020) Jonathan Sacks – Good News

Teddy Roosevelt: “The first duty of an American citizen, then, is that he shall work in politics; his second duty is that he shall do that work in a practical manner; and his third is that it shall be done in accord with the highest principles of honor and justice.” The citizen should be like his “man in the arena”, fully engaged in important matters.

The Soul of America – Jon Meachem (2018) – Good News

Brooks offers 15 solutions. Live for holiness. Fight selfishness. Use your heroic capacity to struggle against external and internal challenges. Humility is the first virtue. Pride is the central vice. Struggle against sin and for virtue. Purposely build character skills, habits, experiences and preferences. Focus on the long-term, permanent attributes of life. Seek help in building character. Recognize the U-shaped pattern of falling, evaluating, feeling and accepting grace and recovering. Quiet the self enough to listen and defeat weaknesses and temptations. Aim for a practical wisdom built upon experience and history rather than a perfect ideology, theology or philosophy. Organize work around a “vocation” and do your best. Define leadership as finding “a just balance between competing values and competing goals”. Embrace the path of becoming better in your vocation and better as a person. That is the opportunity we are given.

The Road to Character – 2015 – Good News

Using the classical Greek values today.

All Things Shining: A Secular Age Solution? – Good News

Connection with the vertical dimension of life.

Vertical Dimension of Life Supports Civility – Good News

The 7 Civility Values

7 Civility Values – Good News

Civility Playlists – 300 Songs – Good News

The 7 Civility Values are Supported by World Religions – Good News

Christianity Supports the 7 Civility Values – Good News

Basis for the Civility Values – Good News

Finnish SISU: Extraordinary Perseverance – Good News

Stephen Covey’s “7 Habits” support the 7 values and the 7 skills/behaviors.

Covey’s “7 Habits” and Civility – Good News

Individual Civility Values

Human Dignity is a Universal Value – Good News

Respect is a Universal Value Supporting Civility – Good News

Responsibility is a Universal Value That Supports Civility – Good News

Intentionality is a Universal Value That Drives Civility – Good News

Constructiveness is a Widely Supported Value and Basis for Civility – Good News

Public-Spiritedness is a Universally Accepted Civility Value – Good News

Acceptance: A Little More Complicated

Acceptance is a Universal Value Supporting Civility – Good News

Civility and DEI – Good News

Addressing the “Threat” of Immigration – Good News

How Liberal Values Drive Conservative Populism – Good News