We’re MUCH Better Off in 2026

Rose Colored Glasses; Man Bites Dog; If it Bleeds it Leads.

Politicians, journalists and influencers of all stripes emphasize the bad, the emotional and the unusual. This burdens us and our society. Allegedly, “it’s bad now, and it was MUCH better in the past”. This eternal NOSTALGIA is a big problem for our society today, leading many people to turn to populists, idealists, authoritarians and charlatans for salvation.

I will outline how much better the United States of America is TODAY than it was in the mid-1970’s. I graduated from high school with the class of 1974. I watched the emotionally mixed American bicentennial celebrations in 1976. I remember Jimmy Carter’s 1979 “malaise” speech in which he said that we, the people, needed to face our challenges directly, especially at a moral level. He was briefly cheered but then criticized for being too negative and pessimistic; an uninspiring leader!

Modern life in the USA is immeasurably better than it was in the 1970’s. It is certainly not perfect. The country has not achieved all that it could have or should have in the last half century. It still faces large global and moral challenges and wonders where it can possibly find the leadership, consensus and engagement to resolve them.

The sheer magnitude of changes in daily life across 50 years is difficult to describe but I hope that my outline will collectively communicate the great scale of improvements we have experienced and the resulting hope and expectation that the next 50 years will deliver the same kinds of positive growth. When we consider the last 50, 100 or 150 years of American life, we should be very optimistic.

Global Threats and Opportunities

  1. The Cold War ended in 1989, relieving the pressure of 4 decades of imminent nuclear destruction. This was a miracle. No war. No revolution. No territories seized. No leaders executed. A quiet end to the threat. The US managed the threat of nuclear terrorism. West Germany embraced East Germany. The European Union welcomed new members. The global economy thrived.
  2. The US established relations with China in 1979, beginning the country’s path to economic prosperity, trade and global influence. The growing trade between China and the world has acted to reduce the threat of conflicts while reducing the cost of goods for all.
  3. The US welcomed the growth of Japan plus the “four tigers” of Hong Kong, Singapore, South Korea, Taiwan, as Asian nations embraced the “Western consensus” of mixed market capitalism, global trade and liberal democracy.
  4. European nations also left behind histories of authoritarian governments or too much socialism to embrace the “Western consensus” and thicken ties through the European Union. Francis Fukuyama prematurely declared “the end of history” but the attractiveness of these successful choices was clear.
  5. The US joined international efforts to reduce tariffs and increase trade leading to a doubling of imports and exports as a share of GDP.
  6. The US adopted a less internationalist position after 9/11/2001, declaring a war on terror, defining the axis of evil, revoking treaty commitments, justifying preemptive war and invading Iraq without UN support. Even with this change, the US largely avoided major military conflicts and losses.
  7. Total immigration to the US grew during this period from 2.3% to 2.9% of the population per decade. Many immigrant groups successfully joined American society.
  8. The US welcomed foreign students to its universities. International tourists increased from 15 to 75 million per year.
  9. The US attempted to resolve the Middle East conflicts with some success, avoiding large scale wars.
  10. The US participated in talks to define and address the threat and impact of global warming. It has taken steps to reduce US carbon emissions.

Politics

  1. Presidents Ford and Carter helped to rebuild confidence in the government after Vietnam and Watergate.
  2. Ronald Reagan established “Conservatism” as a broad political philosophy for the Republican party.
  3. Bill Clinton repositioned Democrats more to the center on economics with his “third way” approach.
  4. Both parties increasingly used wedge issues and either/or choices to polarize parties and choices; although the share of independent voters has grown from 30 to 45%, with the rest evenly split between the two dominant parties.
  5. Perot, Buchannon, Palin and Trump provided social and economic populists with a choice.
  6. The country increasingly accepted racial minorities, women, gays, religious minorities, and immigrants; but the conflict between traditional and modern views was politicized as some could not tolerate the changes and others sought to embed the changes as universal human and legal rights accompanied by social pressures to comply with the dominant “tolerant” view.
  7. Federal government employment was reduced from 5 to 4 million in 50 years, while the population grew by 50%. After Reagan, “government” solutions were inherently suspect. Even Bill Clinton declared “the era of big government” is over.
  8. Total federal, state and local government activities grew a little faster than the economy, with the ratio of tax receipts to GDP inching up from 29% to 32%. The ongoing pressure to “cut spending, taxes and regulations” could not defeat the pressures to address social, political and economic issues and interests.
  9. The top marginal income tax rate was reduced from 70% in 1982 and has remained just under 40% since 1987. Neither party has proposed widespread tax increases.
  10. The Affordable Care Act was enacted in 2010, helping to bring the share of Americans without health insurance down from 20% in 1975 to 8% today.
  11. The US safety net/welfare system has remained intact during this period driving the supplemental poverty rate down from 20% to 15%, while the official poverty rate has declined by just 1%. The share of the elderly (65+) in poverty has fallen from 16% to 8%.

The Economy

  1. Real dollar GDP is 4 times larger at $24 trillion.
  2. US real per capita GDP has remained the highest of all major countries for a century. Continued leadership reflects a dynamically successful economy.
  3. Real per capita GDP has increased by 250% to $70,000.
  4. US fiscal and monetary policy has repeatedly been effective in taming the business cycle and recovering from shocks like the housing crisis and the pandemic.

US Business

  1. Industrial production, including energy, is up by 250%.
  2. The number of business establishments has doubled to 8.6M, providing ownership and employment opportunities in a more specialized, globally traded world.
  3. The number of franchise businesses has grown from 375,000 to 800,000+, employing more than 10 million people.
  4. The rate of new business formation and success increased throughout the period, with a new boost after the pandemic.
  5. Businesses responded to the 1970’s “Japanese invasion” and became strategically more focused, measured more effectively, focused on cost reduction, invested in R&D, and applied information technology and process improvement tools. Foreign and domestic competition led businesses to be more cost effective, improve product quality and offer products better tailored to diverse customer wants and needs.
  6. Firms experimented with factory robots by 1975. They now use 380,000 robots, adding 10% more annually.
  7. Auto production in the US has increased from 8 to 10 million units per year.
  8. Farms produce twice as much using 20% less land and 40% less labor.
  9. Businesses adapted to the world of greater international trade by growing or shrinking facilities, markets, products and product lines. They adapted to the new power of consumers and retailers and reduced power of manufacturers. They divested units and rejected the conglomerate model. They rejected vertical integration, learning to outsource all functions where they did not have a competitive advantage.
  10. Firms embraced more effective banking, equity and bond markets to fund their activities. They tapped global sources and private equity. They learned by use financial leverage to increase net earnings and acquire other less dynamic competitors.
  11. Firms changed organizational structures to have fewer layers, less positional power, more staff experts and the ability to use cross-functional (matrix) approaches to core operations, projects and joint ventures.

Education

  1. Preschool/Kindergarten enrollment up from 5 to 9 million. Nearly all part-time in 1975 and mostly full-time in 2025.
  2. High school graduation rate is up from 75% to 85%.
  3. Intelligence test scores have increased by more than 10 points.
  4. Share of young adults who have earned college degrees has doubled from 20% to 40%.
  5. Share of adults with college degrees has more than tripled from 12% to 38%.
  6. Share of young women with a college degree is up from 17% to 45%; shares for men up from 27% to 37%.
  7. Share of degrees in STEM disciplines has grown from 11% to 19%.
  8. Number of college students studying abroad is up by 5 times.
  9. Law school first-year enrollment remains at 40,000, while the population has grown by 50%.
  10. US holds 18 of top 30 global university spots.
  11. The number of annually earned doctorates has doubled.
  12. US accounts for 50% of Nobel prize winners, up from 40% in 1975.

Transportation

  1. 22% of new cars are electric. Self-driving cars are widely deployed.
  2. Fuel milage has doubled from 13 to 27 miles per gallon.
  3. New car defects have dropped by two-thirds.
  4. Air travel miles are up by 5 times.
  5. FedEx 2-pound overnight service was introduced in 1975 for $75. Service is widespread today at $55.
  6. Same day and next day delivery services are available today, making Amazon.com, grocery and restaurant deliveries common. Catalog mail order lead times were 6-8 weeks in 1975.

Energy

  1. The US faced energy crises in 1973 and 1979 that disrupted businesses, emptied filling stations and led to recessions.
  2. The US imported 35% of its petroleum products in the 1970’s. It is a net exporter today.
  3. Energy intensity, the ratio of energy used to GDP, has fallen by 60% since the 1970’s.
  4. LED bulbs last 10 times longer. Lithium-ion batteries last 4 times longer.
  5. Wind power is 10% of electricity generation. Solar is 10% of electricity generation. Solar is the lowest cost source today, accounting for two-thirds of new generating capacity added.
  6. Coal production is the same today as in 1975, down 50% from its 2007 peak. It is declining rapidly.

Environment

  1. Toxic air pollution measures are lower by 65-90%.
  2. The world resolved the threat to the ozone layer.
  3. Percentage of US homes in communities with treated wastewater has increased from 50% to 80%.
  4. State parks acreage has doubled. Federal parks acreage has tripled. Land trust additions are equal to the state parks area.
  5. Total US forest land area has increased from 750 to 800 million acres, while the US population has grown by 50%.
  6. Nesting pairs of American bald eagles have grown 100-fold, from 700 to 70,000.
  7. US (1976) and global (2014) birth rates are half of historical levels, reducing environmental demands.
  8. US is on track to reach 50% reduction in greenhouse gas emissions by 2030.

Health

  1. Life expectancy has increased from 73 to 78 years.
  2. Infant mortality rate has dropped by two-thirds.
  3. Smallpox has been eradicated. Polio remains eliminated. Other diseases close to zero.
  4. Smoking rate is two-thirds lower, down from 37% to 12% of adults.
  5. Death rates down: Strokes 67%. Cancer 25%. Flu/pneumonia 67%. Heart disease 50%+. Liver disease 25%.
  6. US governments, medical industry, businesses and people responded to the Covid-19 pandemic resulting in a death rate that was half of the 1917 Spanish flu. Novel vaccine development and flexible delivery resources limited the death toll.
  7. Abortion rates have fallen by 50% since 1980.
  8. Medical research continues to develop new science and solutions. Cloning and human genome mapping.
  9. In vitro fertilization births have grown from 0 to 100,000 per year.
  10. Modern anti-depression drugs (SSRI-Prozac) are much safer and more effective than their predecessors.
  11. Kidney dialysis extends lives for 550,000 today versus 25,000 in 1975.
  12. Americans have 40 million MRI scans done on 13,000 machines, up from zero.
  13. Laser eyer surgery has grown from an experimental procedure to 800,000 annually.
  14. 50,000 organs are transplanted each year, up from just a few experiments.

Safety

  1. Property crime rate is down by more than 50%. Violent crime rate is one-third lower.
  2. Both the workplace fatality and injury rates are down by two-thirds.
  3. Traffic fatalities per driven mile are three-fourths lower.
  4. Fire incidents have been cut in half while the population grew by half.
  5. Emergency medical services have grown from 2% to 90% of counties; employing 300,000 people, 50,000 ambulances and 1,300 helicopters.

Consumer

  1. Firms have offered consumers much wider options for products in all industries. A typical Walmart Supercenter has 125,000 different SKU’s.
  2. We enjoy year-round availability of most fruits and vegetables today rather than shopping by season.
  3. Clothing and durable goods prices have been cut by half.
  4. The average automobile is 13 years old versus 6, reflecting massive quality improvements.
  5. Car buyers can choose from 15 major manufacturers instead of just 4.
  6. Appliances in more homes: Washing machines (70-85%), dryers (45-82%), dish washers (28-54%), microwave ovens (4-95%). Refrigerators are 25% larger, half price and 75% more energy efficient.
  7. Median new home square footage has increased by half, from 1,500 to 2,200 square feet.
  8. Mortgage loan rates have declined from 8-14% to 4-7%. Real rates are just 2% today.
  9. Total debt service payments (home, car, credit card, student loan) as a percentage of disposable income have declined from 11% to 10%.
  10. Air-conditioned homes have grown from a hot 55% to a cool 95%.
  11. Away from home food spending has more than doubled from 28% to 59% of total food spending.
  12. Household consumption is up from 87% to 92% of disposable income. Savings is down from 13% to 8%.

Leisure

  1. Many television program options. Top 4 network share down from 90% to 30%. Recording and streaming options exist today.
  2. Cable or satellite TV access has grown from 14% to 100%.
  3. The number of feature films released each year has bloomed from 100 to 700.
  4. Music singles are effectively free today. They cost $7.50 each in current dollars in 1975. The transistor radio has been replaced with portable, wearable devices served by playlists, suggestions and feeds.
  5. Real consumer electronics prices have declined by 80-95%. A 21-25 inch color console was $2-3,000 in 1975 in current dollars. A 50-inch tv is available for $500 today.
  6. A 1982 IBM PC cost $10,000 in current dollars. For $2-3,000 today you get 1,000 times the processor speed, 10,000 times the memory and 100,000 times the storage space.
  7. Video rentals boomed in the 1980’s and 1990’s growing into a digital $100 billion industry.
  8. The $5 billion pinball machine sector evolved into the $50 billion handheld and online gaming industry.
  9. Virtual reality equipment is increasingly popular.
  10. Passports are held by half of US citizens, up from 5% in 1975.
  11. Following deregulation, the real price of air travel per mile has glided down by 40-60%.
  12. Hotel room capacity has doubled from 2.4 to 5.3 million.
  13. Pet food consumption has tripled.
  14. American wine production has increased from 250 to 700 million gallons, along with quality.
  15. American brewery count has increased from 150 to 7,000, along with quality.

Wealth

  1. Mutual funds, index funds and 401K’s offer investing to everyone. Percentage of stockholders has grown from 12% to 60%.
  2. The number of retirement plan participants has grown by 250%.
  3. Real dollar retirement plan assets have grown thirty-fold, from $1.6 to $48 trillion.
  4. Homeownership rate increased from 64% to peak of 69% before falling back to 66%.
  5. Family wealth more than doubled for those in the 1st-25th, 26th-50th, and 51st-90th percentiles between 1989 and 2022. Summary data for 1975 to 1989 is not readily available. Real home prices increased by 20% and the real dollar S&P 500 increased by 75% during this period, overall.

Labor

  1. Compounded labor productivity has increased by 150%, more than 2% per year!
  2. Manufacturing, administrative and farm jobs were reduced by 20% of the total during these 50 years. They were replaced by STEM/analysis, management and health care jobs.
  3. Prime age labor force participation increased from 74% to 84%.
  4. Typical unemployment rate declined from 6.5% to 5%.
  5. Share of self-employed workers increased from 9% to 11%.
  6. According to the Gallup Organization, the share of “engaged” workers has increased greatly in the last 20 years.
  7. Real median family income increased by 40% from 1984 to 2024.
  8. There are dozens of expert calculations of real incomes, adjusted for taxes, government benefits, charity, fringe benefits, hours, etc. Most show that 1975-1990 was flat and that 2000-20 showed modest increases.

Society

  1. The US continues to lead the world in charitable giving as a percentage of income, double the nearest country, Canada.
  2. US migration and population growth in the “Sunbelt” impacted local and national economies, politics and society. Texas (13-31M), California (21-39M) and Florida (8-23M) showed the greatest growth and national influence.
  3. Share of adults cohabiting has increased from 1% to 13%.
  4. Teen pregnancy rate has been cut in half.
  5. The share of married couples has declined from 83% to 67% of households.
  6. Parents now invest 20 hours per week caring for children, up from 12 hours in 1975.
  7. Same sex marriage was legalized by the US Supreme Court in 2015.
  8. Female labor force participation rate has increased from 46% to 57%.
  9. The female to male wage discount has been reduced from 35% to 10%.
  10. The number of congresswomen increased from 19 to 155 (7X).
  11. Women today have access to credit and credit cards in their own names.
  12. Black unemployment declined from 15% to 7%, with the excess above whites falling from 7% to 2%.
  13. Black poverty rate has declined from 30% to 18%.
  14. The Black to White income ratio has improved from 60% to 67%.
  15. The share of interracial marriages has increased from less than 1% to 10%.
  16. Percentage of Americans moving per year has declined from 20% to 12%. Interstate moves have declined from 3% to 2%.
  17. Robert Putnam’s “Bowling Alone” shows a 40% decrease in social participation during this time.
  18. Awareness, tolerance and support for “differences” is higher by an order of magnitude: races, nationality, immigration status, physical or mental disability, gender identity, mental health, autism, obesity, and personality.
  19. Hispanic Americans have increased from 6% to 20% of the population.
  20. The percentage of non-Christians, including religiously unaffiliated, has increased from 12% to 35% of the population.
  21. The share of 40-year-olds never married has increased from 6% to 25%.

Computers

  1. Personal computer software and phone apps provide tools for email, calendars, word processing and spreadsheets to everyone today.
  2. Personal computers are in 95% of homes versus 0% in 1975.
  3. More than 90% of jobs today require computer skills.
  4. Home internet access is 92%.
  5. Digital cameras, music, videos, sound and storage make everything portable.
  6. Voice controlled devices and instant language translation.
  7. Today’s 10-day weather forecasts are as reliable as next day forecasts in 1975.
  8. Google search and artificial intelligence provide access to all of man’s writings and promise thought, itself.

Communications

  1. Internet structure and web browser provide access to everything and everyone.
  2. Smartphones integrate computing and communications. 90% ownership rate. Provides photo, filming and navigating capabilities.
  3. Mobile/cellular phone networks and wifi routers offer universal access to the internet and phones.
  4. Social media networks combine the input of many to build and use networks.
  5. Internet allows for open-source software and information creation.
  6. Video conferencing and internet enabled phone/video calls are common.
  7. Voice mail, answering machines, caller ID and 911 were invented.
  8. Digital books have grown to 25% market share.
  9. Annual first class mail per person increased from 240 to a peak of 360 in 2000 before falling to 130 today.
  10. Daily newspaper subscriptions have plunged from 60 to 20 million.
  11. Share of homes with landlines has fallen from 90% to 30%.
  12. A 3-minute long distance call in 1975 cost $8.70 in current dollars. An international Skye call today is 77 cents.

Summary

The world is a better, richer and safer place. Politics has evolved. The economy is 4 times larger. Businesses and education are more effective. Energy is cheaper. Transportation is better. The environment is much better. Health is much better. Safety is much better. The consumer is king. Leisure options and quality can’t even be compared with 1975. Wealth is up. Incomes are up. Society is digesting many large changes. The computer and communications revolutions have delivered miracles and promise more.

We face social, political and environmental challenges. We have more resources than ever before. Based on American history we should be very confident about solving our challenges.

Christianity Supports the 7 Civility Values

https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2019/10/04/christians-return-to-core-convictions-make-america-more-civil-column/3845002002/

Civility

Civility is a set of behaviors that recognize differences and build respect. Civility is demonstrated through self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship management, communications, growth and problem solving.

Civility is driven by the RICH RAP values of responsibility, intentionality, constructiveness, human dignity, respect, acceptance and public-spiritedness.

These values are essential components of the major world religions, including Christianity.

Responsibility

Responsibility for one’s choices and actions is central to Christianity.

To God: have faith, obey, repent and account for your life.

To Self: grow spiritually, resist sin, develop self-control and seek salvation.

To Others: Show love, serve, choose wisely and build relationships.

To Family: Provide for all needs.

Accountability: Be responsible for thoughts, actions and results. Listen and repent.

Action: Faith must be applied.

Stewardship: Use God-given time, talents and treasures for God’s purposes.

Reflection of Christ: Become more Christ-like through a life of holiness, love and service.

Intentionality

Intentionality is a purposeful, God-aligned way of living where believers pursue a life modeled after Christ.

Following a purposeful God: because God is intentional in creating the world and men.

Aligning with the divine will: surrendering personal desires to God’s will.

Power of the Holy Spirit: relying on the Holy Spirit rather than self-will.

Living with the end in mind: live with eternity in focus, prioritizing spiritual growth, character and service.

Active daily life: working for God through vocations, tasks and relationships.

Constructiveness

Christianity focuses on edification, building up believers and the community through encouraging speech, wise actions and positive creation.

Edification: build up or strengthen others spiritually.

Helpful speech: speak only what builds others up and brings grace.

Discernment: prayerfully determine if actions are truly helpful spiritually.

Truth in Love: offering criticism gently, motivated by the desire to help others grow spiritually.

Creation: responsible for honoring and using God’s good creation.

Human Dignity

Christianity believes that every person possesses [infinite potential] worth as a special creation of God.

Jeremiah 1:5: before I formed you in the womb I knew you.

Isaiah 43:1: I have called you by your name. You are mine.

Image of God: all people are created in the image and likeness of God (Genesis 1:26-7).

Incarnation: God became human, fully man, as Jesus Christ.

Redemption: humans are worth the price of God’s only son, Jesus.

Inalienable and equal: given to all, not by group or merit.

Three greats: valuable humans are called to love neighbors, share the gospel, act justly and love mercy.

Protection of life: sanctity of life is beyond human choice.

Protect the vulnerable: poor, refugees, migrants, widows and prisoners.

Catholic social teaching: human dignity informs views on economic justice, labor rights and humanitarian aid.

Human rights advocacy: modern secular “rights” view is derived from Christian teachings.

Respect

Christianity roots respect in human dignity. It is viewed as a command rather than an earned privilege, focusing on humility, love, and treating others better than oneself.

Image of God: showing respect to others honors God.

Commanded love: proper respect to everyone, including opponents, authorities, and believers.

Humility and selflessness: outdo one another in showing honor.

Value of dignity: respect is based only on intrinsic value given by God, not by social status, merit or agreement.

Reflection of Christ: Jesus showed compassion to the outcasts, the vulnerable, the weak and chose common men and women as disciples to build His church.

Acceptance

Christianity says that all people are created in God’s image, loved unconditionally, and invited into community regardless of background. Jesus exemplified this by engaging with marginalized groups and individuals, and Scripture emphasizes complete equality through spiritual unity.

Radical inclusion by Jesus: breaking social norms to engage outcasts, sinners and the “unclean”.

Theological equality: all are equal in Christ (Galatians 3:28).

Commandment to Love: Love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:39); all of your neighbors.

Welcome the Stranger: the Old Testament repeatedly preaches that foreigners and the marginalized must be treated the same as the native born.

Community of Grace: all individuals are accepted into the community of faith and grace.

Public-Spiritedness

Christianity requires members to act with love, justice, and integrity in civic life. Serving the community, promoting good laws, and engaging in public discourse reflect God’s love and desire for the common good.

Love God, Love Neighbor: The great commandment requires service to society.

Identity in Christ: A child of God, redeemed by and connected with Christ, belongs to the community and as a “new” person willingly serves it.

Salt and Light: Called to be a positive influence through and for the community.

Morality: Actions are right or wrong. Individuals can/must do “right”.

Civic Engagement: Voting, holding office, debating and advocating are civic responsibilities.

Common Good: Building relations with others to work for the common good is required.

Positive Witness: Contribute so that others will see the value of “following Jesus”.

Summary

We live in a place and time where Civility has declined as a habit or social norm. It is necessary for our social, economic and political communities, IMHO. We need to rebuild Civility as a habit, norm and ideal. We can do this for practical reasons.

Or we might be motivated by loftier reasons.

Or we might embrace Civility because it is a logical consequence of our religious beliefs.

Christianity is a positive force in the lives of 2 billion people. It is clearly consistent with and supports the 7 Civility values.

“Render unto Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s” is recorded in 3 of the gospels. Christians are warned that they must distinguish between the material and spiritual, the personal and the community, the practical and the ideal. Some have read this line to encourage Christians to withdraw from practical and civic life in favor of a private, ascetic, withdrawn spiritual life.

Most Christian theologians emphasize the duality of Christ as “fully man, fully God”. Unlike many religions, Christianity embraces the material, natural side of man as being created by God. Genesis records that God concluded his creation and man were “very good”, despite the fall and imperfections. This perspective encourages us to go “all in” as individuals, spouses, parents, stewards, fishers, builders, carpenters, teachers, servants, prophets, nurses, and participants in community.

We promote Civility as a set of behaviors, values, habits, norms and expectations; NOT as a replacement for religion, but as a secular framework for managing community in a world of 8 billion people.

I personally believe that there are common moral values that God has revealed to men in various places, ways and times.

I don’t see a groundswell of support for this view or for Christianity alone, so I promote the secular alternative of Civility as a “least common denominator” way for our “kingdom of man” to function effectively on behalf of the 8 billion children of God.

The 7 Civility Values are Supported by World Religions

https://www.open.edu/openlearn/history-the-arts/world-religion-day

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Human Dignity is a Universal Value

Civility Values

Civility is a set of behaviors based upon the seven commonly held values of: human dignity, respect, acceptance, intentionality, responsibility, constructiveness and public-spiritedness. A social, political and economic society must have some core beliefs, norms and behaviors. The modern renaissance of Civility attempts to define the beliefs, norms and behaviors so they can be shared and promoted. We need to be confident that we know what Civility is, how we should behave, how/why we should influence others and why the underlying principles make sense. Human dignity is the first principle or value underlying the Civility behaviors. It is a universally held value. In our skeptical, individualistic, subjective, relativistic era, it is essential for everyone to deeply understand the meaning of and broad support for this value. [9 Google AI summaries]

Judaism

Christianity

Islam

Buddhism

Hinduism

Taoism

Shintoism

Confucianism

Secular Humanism

Summary

Human dignity is at the heart of each worldview: image of God, gifted by God, preciousness of human birth, inherent divinity, self-so-ness, children of the kami, moral potential, shared humanity and moral agency.

Each worldview also has a complement to the solitary individual: public shaming, sanctity of life, sacredness of life, interconnectedness, one family, ancestral honor, roles, and rationality.

Human dignity is essential for any religious, political, philosophical, or social paradigm. Civility begins with “human dignity”.

Cross-references

Civility as a Dynamic System

Civility is a set of behaviors based upon a set of values. It is adopted and grown by individuals based upon their conscious and unconscious experiences. The practice of Civility tends to promote Civility in others. Unchecked incivility tends to destroy Civility. The practice of Civility depends upon a communications, interaction and problem-solving process. The social commitment to Civility depends upon the rate and intensity of practice and the frequency and impact of responses to incivility. Civility is a social value that is partly conscious and partly unconscious.

Chaos Theory

OK!!! Once we start to investigate dynamic systems, the words and concepts get abstract and “questionable” pretty quickly. Complex systems are unstable. Small changes can cause large impacts. I share this because I think that Civility is a social system subject to this kind of dynamic, nonlinear change.

Emergent Systems

OK!!! Civility is an emergent property of people interacting. Simple, positive interactions promote more positive interactions. AI is trying to describe the idea of virtuous cycles and vicious cycles on a knife’s edge. Civility is a fragile concept and practice.

Managing Incivility

We have mixed advice. Some uncivil behaviors are so toxic they must be opposed. Yet, limiting free speech is against the core beliefs of Civility.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10579492/

Middle Ground

https://www.shrm.org/enterprise-solutions/insights/model-civility-workplace-culture

Limits to the Social Pressure to Conform

OK!!!! Individualism is a very strong force today. Society is much weaker, but it still has some power.

Minimum for Civility Survival

It is unclear what ideals, behaviors, principles, habits, beliefs or actions are needed to preserve Civility.

Limits to the Effectiveness of Taboos

OK!!! Social taboos were powerful but are less powerful today. Social forces were once much stronger. They could be stronger in the future.

Herd Immunity

Civility requires broad public support. When this exists, Civility is a powerful social expectation.

https://historyofvaccines.org/vaccines-101/what-do-vaccines-do/how-herd-immunity-works

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8166024/

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/coronavirus/in-depth/herd-immunity-and-coronavirus/art-20486808

Stickiness

Civility, like other cultural norms, does not disappear quickly, it persists.

Tipping Point

Civility is positioned to survive. There are many individuals and groups with the incentive and capability to defend and promote Civility.

Summary

Overall, I am optimistic about the survival and progress of Civility today, December 15, 2025.

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In the process of using Google AI today, I am now EXTREMELY CONCERNED THAT THE SINGULARITY IS ABOUT TO OCCUR SOON. The responses to my complex questions are at least an order of magnitude more insightful than they were just a few days ago!

Civility is Really About 7 Behaviors

Summary

Civility is a set of behaviors that recognizes differences and builds mutual respect.

  1. Self-awareness
  2. Self-management
  3. Social awareness
  4. Relationship management
  5. Communications
  6. Growth
  7. Problem-solving

Self-Awareness

Emotional Awareness – Identifying and understanding our emotions and their impact on our thoughts, behaviors, and others.
Accurate Self-assessment – Clearly understanding personal strengths and limitations without self-criticism or inflated self-perception.
Self-confidence – Firmly believing in one’s abilities, talents, and judgement.
Self-respect – Properly regarding and caring for the dignity of one’s person and character.
Authenticity – Acting in accordance with one’s true self, values and beliefs.

Self-Management

Emotional Self-control – Managing and regulating one’s emotional responses, preventing impulsive reactions.
Adaptability – Flexibly and efficiently learning and applying that knowledge across situations.
Achievement Motivation – Orientation towards success, mastery, and sense of purpose.
Initiative – Recognizing needs, taking action, and pursuing outcomes without waiting for direction.
Optimism – A mental attitude characterized by a positive outlook and expectations of favorable outcomes.
Apologizing – Acknowledging errors and guilt, expressing regret, repenting, asking for forgiveness.
Trustworthiness – Demonstrating credibility, reliability and intimacy buffered from self-interest.
Resilience – Bouncing back from adversity with flexibility & strength, maintaining wellbeing despite challenges.

Social Awareness

Empathy – Understanding what other people feel, seeing their point of view, and imagining yourself in their place.

Organizational Awareness – Interpreting a group’s emotional state, relationship dynamics and power structures.

Service Orientation – Willingly anticipating, recognizing, and meeting others’ needs,  before they are articulated.

Perspective Taking – Considering others’ thoughts, feelings, intentions, and motivations in a particular situation.

Cultural Awareness – Recognizing the different beliefs, values, and customs of someone based on their origins.

Relationship Management

Influence – Capacity to affect the character, development, or behavior of another person, group, or organization.

Conflict Management – Process by which disputes are resolved,  negative results are minimized and positive results are prioritized.

Teamwork and Collaboration – Combined effort of a group of people working together towards a common goal or objective.

Inspirational Leadership – Inspiring and guiding people to get the job done, to bring out their best.

Change Management – Providing approaches, tools, and techniques to achieve a desired future state.

Collaboration Tools – Offering any technology or tool that can be used to help people to better work together.

Meeting Management – Organizing and facilitating meetings to ensure productivity and alignment.

Project Management – Planning, organizing, and executing tasks to create a tangible product, service, or deliverable.

Communications

Commonality – Finding and emphasizing common interests, perspectives and experiences.

Be Patient – Encouraging others to speak, not interrupting them.

Overall Awareness – Paying attention to non-verbal cues, overall message of speakers.

Recognize/Validate Others – Listening, remembering and using names, acknowledging others’ views and emotions.

Mirror Communications – Confirming listening by restating what you heard in your own words.

Speak Kindly – Using words that are neutral or supportive, not attacking others.

Understand – Asking questions, clarifying, seeking first to understand, not to reply.

Manage Praise – Giving and receiving praise for communications, actions, intentions and results, when appropriate.

Defend Properly – Defining boundaries, expressing views in “I” statements, not overreaching.

Solve the Problem – Focusing on issues, not people.

Electronic Communications – Effective email and social media communications.

Growth

Experiential Learning – Benefiting from the experience and natural results of participating in civil processes.
Continuous Improvement – Maintaining newly developed skills and skill levels with support from civil colleagues.
Embracing Feedback – Encouraging honest feedback provides opportunities for personal growth.
New Perspectives – Gaining new approaches, viewpoints and paradigms from interacting with others.
Higher Expectations – Improving goals and behaviors in response to the expectations/norms of others.
Confidence – Using civil processes to address and resolve difficult situations builds personal and process confidence.
Broadly Applying Skills – Trying, testing and using civility skills in all domains of life.
Modelling Behaviors – Practicing civility skills helps to teach, influence and inspire others.
Developing Others – Recognizing and nurturing potential in others through encouragement and honest feedback.

Problem-Solving

Analytical Tools – Critical thinking, decision making, game theory, finance, economics and operations management.

Creative Thinking – Thinking about a task or a problem in a new or different way, or generate new ideas.

Strategic Thinking – Intentionally and logically making organization level decisions with long-term impacts. 

Organizational Design – Improving an organization’s effectiveness and performance.

Organizational Development – Structuring an organization to align with its strategic goals and objectives.

Systems Thinking – Cognitive skill and a way of understanding reality that emphasizes the whole rather than the sum of its parts.

Process Engineering – Approach to designing, analyzing, and optimizing steps to produce a consistent, repeatable outcome. 

Public Administration – Coordination of government activities to ensure the effective delivery of services and the application of laws.

Summary

We have lost our commitment to civility in our interactions with each other in the last 50 years. On the other hand, we understand exactly how and why we should act civilly. We can learn about acting civilly within all of our institutions, setting aside our political differences. The behavioral sciences have clearly described the practice of civility. We now have the ability to learn and sharpen our civility skills. We must implement this training for our children and our fellow citizens.

Civility Today Index

https://www.presidentialscholars.org/notable-scholars-1/2015/8/27/mitch-daniels-1967-scholar

Former Indiana governor and Purdue University president Mitch Daniels provides us with a model of civility in his public life, as we have seen from many American political leaders.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mitch_Daniels

Current Articles

The articles below describe current attempts to define and promote civility.

Related Topics

Inspiring Civility

https://www.cml.org/home/topics-key-issues/civility-starts-here

Our Situation

The practice of civility is declining. But we must be hopeful! The grass roots counter-revolution to rebuild Civility has begun. We must not be discouraged. The United States started 250 years ago as an experiment in representative democracy based on universal ideals. It has succeeded against long odds. At the 1787 constitutional convention, Ben Franklin was asked what form of government was being formed. He replied, “a republic, if you can keep it”. In 1852 as the nation battled over slavery and “states’ rights”, Wendell Phillips noted that “eternal vigilance is the price of liberty”.

The US was formed after religious wars had ripped Europe apart and the central rule of kings, landed wealth, nobles and state churches proved inadequate to the challenges and aspirations of modern men and women. It was founded on new principles of individual rights and limited central power. It was not based on history, religion, military power, race, soil, elites, class or wealth. This abstract foundation has been a great asset through time, but it requires citizens to understand and fill their key roles.

Christianity, western culture, New England myths, cultural and educational institutions, patriotism, American exceptionalism, local governments, inertia, mass media and public intellectuals all encouraged Americans to fulfill their citizenship duties: to vote, monitor politics, set and enforce candidate expectations, uphold the constitution and rule of law, obey the laws, pay taxes, serve in the military, sacrifice for the nation, serve on juries, and conduct themselves in a Civil manner.

The cultural revolution of the 1960’s and the Reagan revolution of the 1980’s undercut these forces. Each individual was encouraged to think and act for himself. Individuals welcomed the new freedom to “express yourself”. Civic duties and civility declined through time. Left and right argued about the causes of the very apparent decay of civilization but no new solutions or Civility norms emerged.

Cole Porter’s 1934 “Anything Goes” viewpoint ruled. If we couldn’t agree on political issues, then we could at least agree to be tolerant of all different viewpoints. This was the modern way. Liberals elevated “tolerance” to become a supreme virtue. Liberal intellectuals confirmed that no central values, virtues, character or opinions were needed to support the political state. The fear of conservative, religious, or wealthy domination of culture, economics and politics reinforced this position. Main Street and Wall Street conservatives accepted the more socially moderate/liberal positions of the modern world. They celebrated economic growth, capitalism and the consumer society.

Philosophical and religious conservatives disagreed. The perceived slide towards tolerance, radical subjectivity and atheism was unacceptable. Social and religious conservatives doubled down on traditional views. They became more radical and non-tolerant. They embraced and then captured the Republican party. Small town, rural, working class, economically at-risk Americans saw a meritocratic, global, elitist nation that conspired against their interests. They also embraced the Republican party as the Democratic party proclaimed universal values and prioritized new special interests.

In 1990 Newt Gingrich demonstrated that polarized politics was very effective in the modern age. Bill Clinton and Barrack Obama tried to find a “third way” to triangulate and recapture the center but while they could win elections, they could not really change the polarized culture. Donald Trump embraced the polarized model with great success. The need for “Civility” was not part of his world view. Many in this newly defined party agreed with his win/lose, realpolitik, scorched earth view of politics.

Despite this political situation, most Americans continue to believe in civility. The threats to our system have prompted many people to become more active in politics and to support the core values and behaviors of Civility.

Inspired Civility

The counter-revolution to restore Civility as a core American value and set of behaviors is now well under way. Will it work? Why will it work?

Civility is a set of behaviors that recognizes differences and builds mutual respect. Civility is based upon the 7 commonly held values of human dignity, respect, accepting others, responsibility, public spirit, intentionality and constructiveness.

Civility is a social norm that influences behavior. It is a set of practices, skills, habits and behaviors. Civility requires self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and relationship management skills. It also requires communications, personal growth and problem-solving skills. This is a very heavy package of skills requiring a lifetime of personal investments. Yet, it is required for our representative democracy. Why would any individual choose to make this investment?

Passionate Humans

1 Corinthians 13. If I speak in tongues of men or angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging symbol.

Civility as a purely abstract, technical, secular, efficient, professional, dry, thin concept cannot win in the modern world. Civility must spring from the hearts of men and women. The values, education, steps, content and behavior of Civility alone are simply not enough. What will attract and engage modern individuals into making Civility a passionate priority? Why will the Civility counter-revolution win?

Humans are motivated by self-interest and specific situations but mainly by a passionate sense of duty.

Self-interest

In modern America, self-interest may be first!

  1. Personal benefits

Practicing Civility provides 15 benefits, primarily improved communications and conflict resolution skills, better personal and professional relations and personal well-being.

2. Personal growth. Civility’s focus on self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship management, communications, growth and problem-solving drives personal growth. It is a great fit for the implicit modern philosophy of self-expression and Maslow’s top-level goal of self-actualization.

3.Local environment. Civility values and behaviors can help individuals to make their local environments more productive, effective and Civil. One individual can use these tools to improve their local environment.

4. Benevolent self-interest. Civility has inherent spillover or externality effects. Individuals who invest in civility sometimes aim to influence others and local communities to become more Civil for the good of the community. Individuals feel good about promoting these changes.

Situation

Sometimes the situation alone calls for an obvious response. We have such a situation today. Our society is at risk, and we fear the consequences of a downward spiral. We have the tools, knowledge and agency to prevent this. We must respond.

  1. Opportunity. Civility tools are widely accessible. The cognitive and behavioral sciences have grown tremendously in the last half century. Individuals learn and apply various Civility tools at all stages of their lives.

2. Consequence of Failure. Americans know about the “Decline and Fall of Rome”. They witnessed two world wars, a nuclear cold war and its end. They learned that Francis Fukayama’s proclamation of the end of history in 1992 was premature. Civilization is a precious thing. It faces many threats today. Combatting the possible failure of Western civilization is a worthwhile endeavor.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_History_of_the_Decline_and_Fall_of_the_Roman_Empire

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_End_of_History_and_the_Last_Man

3. Generational Responsibility. “The Greatest Generation” has earned its rest. The “Baby Boomers” have dominated the last 75 years. We received “Western Civilization”, won the “cold war”, embraced individualism and expanded rights and freedoms. But we abandoned the cultural norms of civility. We have an opportunity to restore them in a better form with greater effectiveness without restricting individual freedoms.

4. Agency. We inhabit a “mass society” where global trade, banking systems, the United Nations, judges, lobbyists, politicians, the media, advertising, corporations, lawyers, banks, insurance companies, universities, computers, systems, processes and artificial intelligence seem to rule. Yet, we prize our individuality, independence, freedom, agency, identities and souls. Civility can be practiced and improved by each individual. No permission is required. We can teach others through our own actions and through education and changes to small communities like families, book clubs, prayer groups and work units. Small changes can have large impacts.

Duty

Civility rests upon 7 values. Human dignity, respect, acceptance and responsibility are broadly supported. Public spirit, intentionality and constructiveness attract less interest from some comprehensive value systems. People embrace, apply and grow such values when they feel a sense of duty., which can come from a variety of sources. Fortunately, Civility can be supported from any of 7 sources of duty.

Our society doesn’t require everyone to have the same religious or political beliefs. It doesn’t require everyone to actively practice Civility. It requires a “critical mass” of individuals who actively practice, improve themselves and promote Civility. We live in a time when we need to be very intentional about growing Civility.

  1. Civic Duty – Many citizens deeply understand the benefits of living in a democratic society. They support Civility because they understand it is necessary. Civility enables constructive dialogue, supports self-governance, builds trust and social cohesion, promotes effective governance and manages conflicts peacefully.
  2. Patriotic Duty – Americans are proud of their country’s history of establishing and maintaining a representative democracy as an example for the world. They practice civility to preserve democracy, uphold its founding principles, ensure social stability, and foster national unity and trust.
  3. Cultural Duty – Individuals live in communities and follow the norms of those communities. The history of Civility sets expectations for continuing to act in a Civil manner. Even in highly individualistic communities, we accept that informal norms, expectations and manners are required to avoid stronger laws, administration and enforcement that would reduce our freedoms. Most individuals are proud of their cultural history and happy to comply. Conservatives naturally honor such history. Many American liberals are also quite proud of the achievements of our society.
  4. Religious Duty – Many religions support at least some of the 7 Civility core values. Those who believe humans are created in God’s image emphasize human dignity, respect and acceptance. Many religious and ethical traditions teach the “Golden Rule”—to treat others as one wishes to be treated. This principle serves as a direct guide for civil behavior, encouraging empathy, courtesy, and kindness in all interactions. Many religions ask members to “love your neighbor”, and support the welfare of others, including strangers and those who are different. Religious texts and teachings often provide a moral framework that promotes virtues like patience, kindness, generosity, gentleness, self-control, and humility. Cultivating these virtues is considered part of a faithful life, which naturally leads to more civil interactions. A sense of humility, derived from the belief that only God can make the final judgment, encourages individuals to tolerate differing views and avoid a condescending attitude toward others.
  5. Philosophical Duty – Philosophers have always address the core challenge of forming community and governing even though individuals have different views, needs and interests. Hence, they outline governance structures that work to bridge that gap, often overlapping with the values of Civility. Humanism, secular humanism and philosophies of personal growth and expression emphasize the importance of human dignity, the need to give and receive respect and the importance of accepting or celebrating differences. Many philosophies are compatible with the “golden rule” which emphasizes the mutual respect and forbearance required for a healthy society.
  6. Personality. Individuals with a strong preference for “feeling” versus “thinking” behaviors naturally embrace the Civility values. This can be combined with either a “perceiving”/flexible or “judging”/inflexible approach to the world. Some individuals naturally prioritize responsibility/intentionality or positivity/constructiveness or public spiritedness/belonging.

7. Personal Identity. Many individuals today want to find, define, develop and refine their personal identities. They wish to consciously optimize their human potential. This includes being self-aware, managing themselves, being socially aware and managing relationships, the first 4 Civility behaviors. Individuals who build a secure personal identity are able to interact with others and accept their differences without feeling threatened or the need to resolve such differences. Individuals who have consciously made life choices and experienced personal growth understand that there are different options and views to be considered.

Summary

The practice of Civility is based upon core values like human dignity, respect, acceptance and responsibility. These values are supported by our worldviews. Civility is consistent with the 9 sources of strongly held beliefs. Each can actively and passionately support Civility. We need to rebuild the skills, habits and expectations of Civility. We can confidently look to self-interest, our current situation and the call of duty to make this happen.

Civility Taboos

Introduction

Cultures exist because individuals need to be combined into communities. Without cultural norms, expectations, education, rewards, penalties and taboos there wouldn’t be any culture, community or civilization. Modern “civility” is a set of values, skills and behaviors required to hold together a diverse, multicultural society like the United States. With the growing breakdown of historic western Christian culture, the US needs to actively embrace the values subset of “civility” in order to make our political, social and economic worlds function effectively. This requires society – and its leaders and influencers – to clearly define select important aspirational values AND to define what is TABOO, poison, shunned, beyond the pale, unacceptable, and rejected by all. We focus on the 8 civility values.

MODERN TABOOS FOR EVERYONE

  1. Angry outbursts and yelling.
  2. Attacking ideas, opinions and proposals without reason.
  3. Raising personal opinions, values or interests above professional responsibility.
  4. Ignoring uncivil actions.
  5. Allowing high value-added performers to ignore civility standards.
  6. Insults or ridicule.
  7. Blame or gossip.
  8. Taking credit for others’ work.
  9. Slavery, torture, rape, female genital mutilation, child marriage.
  10. Bullying.
  11. Forced marriage.
  12. Arbitrary imprisonment.
  13. Commercialization of human life, prostitution.
  14. Voting rights limits.
  15. Group discrimination, shaming.
  16. Ignoring or neglecting others; individuals or local groups.
  17. Addressing individuals with disrespect.
  18. Treating individuals as a means, a class member, rather than a human being, an infinitely valuable end [Immanuel Kant].
  19. Gaslighting.
  20. Ignoring questions of race, nationality, gender, sexuality, disabilities or mental health.
  21. Arbitrarily rejecting personal choices about personal fashion, modesty or body image.
  22. Arbitrarily rejecting proposed reparations for historical group damages.
  23. Failing to recognize that policies that benefit minorities might unfairly harm majorities.
  24. Embracing victimhood.
  25. Abdicating responsibility for making personal choices.
  26. Failing to use logic to make choices; following will, desire or emotion alone.
  27. Failing to define and pursue personal goals.
  28. Failing to consider the consequences of one’s personal actions.
  29. Allowing others to strictly determine one’s choices (family, groups, ideologies, professionals, experts, science, leaders, political parties, public opinion).
  30. Blaming others, making excuses, hiding mistakes.
  31. Avoiding personal responsibility by distracting others.
  32. Lying, being dishonest.
  33. Betraying a group that you should be loyal to.
  34. Supporting an individual or group whose legitimacy you question.
  35. Strictly promoting personal self-interest above the needs of the community.
  36. Ignoring civic participation duties.
  37. Failing to trust others and groups after they have trusted you.
  38. Ignoring community interests.
  39. Allowing others to transgress shared community norms.
  40. Ignoring others on a day to day basis.
  41. Not listening; interrupting, undermining.
  42. Failing to participate in group activities.
  43. Ignoring, discounting or undermining others’ attempts to contribute to group decision making.
  44. Dominating conversations, especially after being placed on notice.
  45. Constant negativity, challenges and skepticism.

Summary

Taboos are a critical dimension of a deeply held moral framework. Civility is based upon society agreeing that some values and their implications are “rock solid”. A few of the taboos above are mainly embraced by the left, but ALL 45 (!!!!!!) are embraced by a supermajority of citizens.

The “liberal” virtue of tolerance can be interpreted as THE value, an allegedly supreme value more important than all/any others. It must not be elevated to this dominant role. Tolerance is important but it is not controlling.

Hence, the underlying civility values of human dignity, respect, acceptance, responsibility, public spiritedness, intentionality, interaction and positivity combine to form a successful common framework for all.

Taboos provide the negative (unacceptable) side of values. Civil people, irrespective of their political opinions, must reject these beliefs, opinions, actions and communications. TRUTH is the ultimate standard. We must all reject beliefs that conflict with the truth.

Avoiding/rejecting these taboos is not easy. We humans are still imperfect. We have to work and work and work to reach for the positive dimensions of the proposed subset of civility virtues, and avoid the taboos.