https://www.goarmy.com/careers-and-jobs/specialty-careers/special-ops/civil-affairs

Google AI offers this interesting summary. The “world” is predisposed to see “civility” as a “soft” subject. Proponents of civility must work to overcome this preconception while leveraging the insights, commitment and support of those who “naturally” know that civility is needed for all.

Google AI Answer

The personality types most passionate about civility, politeness, and social harmony tend to be those with strong Extroverted Feeling (Fe) or Introverted Feeling (Fi) functions, which guide them to prioritize others’ emotions, social order, and strong moral values.

Key types that embody this passion include:

ESFJ (Consul/The Most Polite): Considered the most polite personality type, ESFJs highly value good manners, tradition, and maintaining social balance and harmony. They are warm, welcoming, and deeply care about the emotional well-being of those around them, actively working to create harmonious situations and avoiding conflict.

ISFJ (Defender/The Nurturer): ISFJs are driven by a strong sense of duty, integrity, and honesty, conducting themselves with the utmost decency. They value cooperation and consensus, and are often very sensitive to other people’s feelings, finding it frustrating when people engage in needless debate.

ENFJ (Protagonist/The Giver): Known for their optimism and ethical nature, ENFJs are highly aware of the needs of others and are naturally polite. They are motivated by helping people and communities meet their potential and strive to make a positive impact, often acting as “moral guidance”.

INFJ (Advocate): Thanks to their ability to intuit others’ emotions, INFJs are usually very polite and sensitive, with a strong focus on fairness and justice. They are often moved by social problems affecting society and work to address the suffering of others by focusing on authenticity and personal growth.

INFP (Mediator): As compassionate and caring types, INFPs are sensitive to the feelings of others and careful with their wording. They have a strong internal moral compass and are typically nonjudgmental when approaching someone in need, focusing on emotional comfort and inspiration. 

In contrast, other types might prioritize efficiency, logic, or directness over social pleasantries, which can sometimes come across as less “civil” in the traditional sense, though they are not necessarily impolite deliberately.

https://www.truity.com/blog/ranking-16-myers-and-briggs-types-most-least-polite#:~:text=1.,personality%20type%20of%20all%2016.

https://www.16personalities.com/articles/16-compassionate-personality-types

https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/heres-what-you-get-impatient-about-based-on-your-myers-briggs-personality-type/